Most people assume that success makes life easier. In many ways, it does. But after working with CEOs, founders, entrepreneurs, physicians, attorneys, executives, and business owners, I’ve learned something that often surprises people: The higher someone climbs, the fewer places they have to be completely honest. When you’re responsible for leading a company, supporting a…
Read MoreI used to wake up in a house I chose, next to a partner I loved, headed to a job I worked hard for—and still feel like I wasn’t in my own life. From the outside, it looked like I was living the dream. But inside? I felt like a stranger to myself. My days…
Read MoreYou’ll often find us chatting between appointments not just about therapy—but about our runs. Katie Huggins, Julia Akins, and Adam Glendye have been steadily building their endurance as runners. Whether we’re following a structured marathon training plan or simply logging miles for general aerobic fitness, running has become more than just a hobby—it’s become an…
Read MoreMost baseball coaches focus on wins and losses. While team success is important, the greatest coaches go beyond the scoreboard, prioritizing the development of the person, not just the player. They recognize that true success isn’t just about statistics—it’s about shaping young athletes into confident, resilient, and team-oriented individuals who will carry these lessons far…
Read MoreAs parents, watching children struggle can be difficult. Whether they’re on the baseball diamond, tackling a tough math problem, or navigating friendships, their first instinct might be to give up when things get hard. In a world of instant gratification, where everything from entertainment to information is available at the tap of a screen, the…
Read MoreStress has become an unavoidable part of life. Many people turn to AI-powered self-help tools (we do too!) for instant relief, using habit-tracking apps, virtual coaches, and meditation platforms to manage their mental health. While these tools offer convenience and accessibility, they lack the depth of human connection that is essential for lasting emotional well-being….
Read MoreAt The Pursuit Counseling, while we have not served in the military, we have had the privilege of working with many military veterans. One of the most valuable lessons we’ve learned in our clinical work is that speaking a shared language fosters trust, understanding, and healing. One phrase that resonates deeply with many of our…
Read MoreWhen we think about addiction, we often focus on the substance or behavior itself—alcohol, drugs, gambling, or compulsive shopping. But addiction is rarely just about the substance; it’s about the why. Why does someone feel the need to escape, numb, or seek control? One of the most overlooked answers is unresolved trauma. Trauma and Addiction…
Read MoreAn emotional affair can be just as painful and damaging to a relationship as a physical affair. While there may be no physical intimacy involved, emotional affairs often create deep feelings of betrayal, secrecy, and broken trust that can leave couples questioning the future of their relationship. Many people are surprised by how quickly an…
Read MoreTrust and Truth: The Foundation of Healthy Relationships Trust is the cornerstone of any strong relationship. When trust is broken—whether through small lies or significant betrayals—it can shake the foundation of emotional security. While it’s essential not to jump to conclusions, understanding the signs of deception can help partners navigate difficult conversations with clarity and…
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