At The Pursuit Counseling, while we have not served in the military, we have had the privilege of working with many military veterans. One of the most valuable lessons we’ve learned in our clinical work is that speaking a shared language fosters trust, understanding, and healing. One phrase that resonates deeply with many of our…
Read MoreWhen we think about addiction, we often focus on the substance or behavior itself—alcohol, drugs, gambling, or compulsive shopping. But addiction is rarely just about the substance; it’s about the why. Why does someone feel the need to escape, numb, or seek control? One of the most overlooked answers is unresolved trauma. Trauma and Addiction…
Read MoreIn today\’s hyper-connected world, emotional affairs are becoming more common, often developing unnoticed until they cause significant damage. Unlike physical affairs, emotional affairs center around deep emotional intimacy, secrecy, and an increasing reliance on someone outside the primary relationship. While they may not involve physical intimacy, their impact on relationships can be just as devastating….
Read MoreTrust and Truth: The Foundation of Healthy Relationships Trust is the cornerstone of any strong relationship. When trust is broken—whether through small lies or significant betrayals—it can shake the foundation of emotional security. While it’s essential not to jump to conclusions, understanding the signs of deception can help partners navigate difficult conversations with clarity and…
Read MoreVeterans face unique mental health challenges due to their service experiences. Many struggle with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), depression, anxiety, and moral injury—deep emotional wounds from difficult decisions made in combat or service. These challenges can affect daily life, relationships, and overall well-being. At The Pursuit Counseling, we understand the complexities of veteran mental health…
Read MoreFor those struggling with depression, energy can feel like a scarce resource. The simplest tasks—getting out of bed, going to work, making dinner, or even brushing your teeth—can feel overwhelming. Depression drains motivation, making everyday responsibilities feel insurmountable. But with spring comes a shift. The days grow longer, the sun shines brighter, and even the…
Read MoreSarah was exhausted. Between shuttling her kids to soccer practice, managing the endless laundry piles, keeping up with friendships, and nurturing her marriage, she felt like she was drowning. Her days blurred together in a whirlwind of obligations, and despite loving her family deeply, she found herself overwhelmed, irritable, and disconnected from the joy of…
Read MoreAs I approached my 40\’s I noticed that my fatigue, stress, anxiety, and energy levels were declining. Being an athlete, a therapist, a business leader, philanthropist, and husband, I didn\’t feel like I was firing on all cylinders and was tired of being tired. I tried advocating to my physician but since I fell within…
Read MoreFor many, the life of a flight attendant seems glamorous—traveling the world, meeting new people, and experiencing different cultures. But behind the smiles and perfectly pressed uniforms lies a demanding career that can take a toll on mental health. Long hours, unpredictable schedules, and time away from loved ones create unique challenges, especially for young…
Read MoreAlbert Einstein is often credited with saying, \”The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.\” While there’s no formal evidence that he actually said this, the sentiment rings true—especially for small business owners caught in the relentless cycle of stress, worry, and exhaustion. If you’re a…
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