At The Pursuit Counseling, while we have not served in the military, we have had the privilege of working with many military veterans. One of the most valuable lessons we’ve learned in our clinical work is that speaking a shared language fosters trust, understanding, and healing. One phrase that resonates deeply with many of our veteran clients is “Shoot, Move, and Communicate”—a foundational combat principle that also holds powerful insights for mental health, personal growth, and navigating life’s challenges.
What Does “Shoot, Move, and Communicate” Mean?
In military tactics, “Shoot, Move, and Communicate” is a survival principle:
- Shoot – Engage the enemy with focused and intentional action.
- Move – Stay mobile, adjust to threats, and reposition strategically.
- Communicate – Relay critical information to your team to ensure coordination and success.
While these are essential in combat, they also offer a profound framework for managing mental health, relationships, and personal growth.
Applying This to Mental Health and Life Transitions
Life often feels like a battlefield—full of obstacles, uncertainty, and moments where we must act decisively. Whether someone is recovering from trauma, navigating a career change, or working through a difficult relationship, the ability to take action, adapt, and communicate effectively is key to resilience and success.
1. Shoot: Taking Decisive Action Toward Change
In therapy, we often talk about breaking through stagnation. Many people feel stuck—whether it’s in their emotions, careers, or relationships—but hesitate to take action out of fear or uncertainty.
- “Shooting” in life doesn’t mean being reckless; it means taking intentional steps toward healing and growth.
- Whether that’s starting therapy, setting boundaries, or addressing unresolved trauma, the first step often requires courage.
Much like in combat, failing to act can be just as dangerous as making the wrong move. Inaction leads to deeper stress, worsening mental health, and a sense of powerlessness.
2. Move: Adapting to Life’s Challenges
Change is inevitable. The ability to move—both physically and mentally—is what allows us to keep progressing.
- For veterans, transitioning to civilian life can feel overwhelming. The familiar structure of the military is gone, and they must adjust to a world that often feels disconnected.
- For anyone experiencing a major life transition—divorce, career shifts, or grief—the ability to move forward, even when uncertain, is key to resilience.
- In therapy, movement might mean adjusting coping strategies, reframing negative thoughts, or letting go of patterns that no longer serve us.
Much like in combat, staying in one place for too long makes us vulnerable—to stress, anxiety, depression, and old habits. Progress requires movement, even if it’s uncomfortable.
3. Communicate: The Power of Connection
In combat, a breakdown in communication can mean life or death. The same is true in our personal lives—isolation and silence can be just as destructive as external threats.
- Veterans often struggle with sharing their experiences, fearing they won’t be understood.
- Many people battling depression or trauma withdraw, believing they must fight their battles alone.
- Relationships suffer when we fail to express needs, emotions, or struggles.
Effective communication isn’t just about talking—it’s about connecting, being vulnerable, and asking for help when needed.
- Therapy provides a space to practice open, honest communication without judgment.
- Learning how to express emotions, fears, and struggles builds trust, strengthens relationships, and fosters healing.
The Importance of Team, Purpose, and Mission
Beyond tactics, military success is built on trust, shared purpose, and a clear mission. The same is true for mental health.
- Team: Healing doesn’t happen in isolation. We all need support systems—friends, family, or therapists—who have our backs.
- Purpose: Having a “why” gives us direction. Without purpose, action feels meaningless. Therapy helps uncover purpose and meaning, even in the midst of struggle.
- Mission: A clear mission keeps us focused. Are we working toward recovery? A healthier mindset? Stronger relationships? Defining the mission helps us stay committed, even when challenges arise.
Applying the Mindset to Everyday Life
Veterans understand that survival requires discipline, adaptability, and teamwork. These same principles apply to mental health and personal growth. Taking action, adapting to change, and maintaining strong communication can transform not just military operations, but lives.
If you or someone you know is struggling, remember—you don’t have to fight alone. At The Pursuit Counseling, we honor the language, experiences, and resilience of those we serve, and we are here to walk alongside you in your pursuit of healing and purpose.
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