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Step Into the Unknown. Own Your Story.
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I’m EYO, your guide into the unknown. You might notice I don’t have a face—that’s because I’m here to represent you, me, and every story that has ever been lived, told, or discovered. I’m a reflection of the human experience, a reminder that we’re all navigating this journey together.

Through Uncharted, I’ll share stories, ideas, and hard truths about therapy, growth, and the messiness of being human. Some of these I’ve hashed out myself, others I’ve learned along the way—but all of them are here to help you make sense of your own path.

So, let’s explore. Let’s ask the big questions, face the hard stuff, and find meaning in the journey. Because the beauty of being human? It’s that none of us have it all figured out—we’re all a little Uncharted.

Hi Peeps, I’m EYO! —

Welcome to Uncharted—the space where we explore the unknown, embrace the pursuit, and dare to step into what’s next.

Uncharted Territory

 Change.  As therapists, we know just the word can spark excitement or stir anxiety. Some of us cling to routine, craving the predictability and comfort it brings, while others are drawn to change like moths to a flame, always seeking new horizons. But no matter how we feel about it, change is an inevitable part […]

Change: Mindset and Experience.

Technology is a significant part of our everyday lives, offering endless opportunities for connection, information, and entertainment. However, for many young adults, the line between healthy use and addiction to devices can become blurred. With constant access to smartphones, social media, streaming services, and gaming platforms, it’s easy to become consumed by the digital world. […]

Understanding Technology Addiction

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Are you feeling weighed down, anxious, or burdened by things you can’t let go of? Do you find yourself easily triggered by the people around you or wish you had healthier relationships in your life?  If you’ve heard of EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) therapy, you might be curious about how it works and whether […]

The 8 Phases of EMDR Therapy

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I, Adam, was listening to this week’s episode of The Big Deal Podcast with Codie Sanchez and her conversation with Joe Lonsdale, the Co-Founder of Palantir and 7 other multi-billion dollar companies. His resume demonstrates that he knows how to develop businesses and make exceptional decisions while he seeks understanding emotions as a foundation to […]

Understanding Emotions: Success for Business Leaders

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Relationships are built on a foundation of shared experiences, trust, and commitment. As the months and years pass, the milestones we reach with our partners—whether it’s an anniversary, a promotion, or even the first home together—become important markers of our journey. Celebrating these moments isn’t just about creating special memories; it’s about recognizing the effort, […]

Celebrating Milestones in Relationships

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As the seasons change, so do the challenges facing our community’s mental health. During this time of transition, we often see a rise in mental health struggles, especially among teens and young adults. The pressures of school, social dynamics, and the broader world can weigh heavily on them. For some, these pressures become overwhelming, leading […]

Mental Health Struggles in Teens and Young Adults

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Change is an inevitable part of life, but that doesn’t make it any easier to handle. Whether it’s a career shift, a relationship ending, moving to a new city, or adjusting to life as a parent, navigating life transitions can bring a mix of excitement, uncertainty, and stress. During these times, it’s common to feel […]

Life Transitions: Benefits of Therapy

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In the last few months, we have had more and more couples reaching out for counseling because they feel disconnected. Connection in couples is at a low level in comparison to previous generations. Couples often report that work, activities, children, stress, and too many screens are distracting them from their partners. Relationship Counseling: Identifying Barriers […]

Identifying Barriers to Connection in Couples

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As the seasons shift, many people experience more than just changes in weather—they often notice fluctuations in mood and heightened anxiety. Seasonal changes, especially those marking significant life transitions, can bring about feelings of unease, stress, and even fear. Whether it’s the start of a new school year, the approach of the holiday season, or […]

Anxiety During Seasonal Changes

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As the days grow shorter and sunlight becomes scarce, many people experience changes in their mood and energy levels. For some, these shifts go beyond the typical “winter blues” and develop into Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD). SAD is a form of depression that occurs at specific times of the year, usually during the fall and […]

Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD): How to Cope

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Raise your hand if you’ve struggled with ongoing stress and anxiety. Maybe it’s even kept you up at night or you notice yourself avoiding certain social situations. Maybe you’ve tried therapy or medication, but you are looking for a treatment that gets to the root of your challenges. You might have heard of EMDR (Eye Movement […]

5 Signs You Could Benefit from EMDR for Anxiety

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Life is often thought of as a series of events—a collection of highs, lows, successes, and failures. Many people experience their lives as fragmented, with work, family, friendships, and personal growth compartmentalized. However, this way of thinking can lead to a disjointed sense of self, causing us to feel emotionally drained, physically disconnected, and relationally […]

Think About Life as a Pursuit

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Change is an inescapable part of our human experience, woven into the fabric of life. Whether we welcome it or dread it, change inevitably propels us forward on the pursuit of growth, self-discovery, and emotional well-being. As we navigate life’s transitions—be they major life events or subtle shifts in daily routines—our ability to adapt becomes […]

Pursuit of Change: Embracing Life Transitions

Change is an inevitable part of life, but for many people, the thought of change triggers deep fear and anxiety. Whether it’s a major life transition like moving to a new city, starting a new job, or even smaller shifts like altering a daily routine, the fear of the unknown can feel paralyzing. As a […]

Overcome the Fear of Change

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When a loved one experiences a mental health crisis requiring acute care, families often find themselves in uncharted and overwhelming territory. The idea of needing a psychiatric hospital can stir feelings of fear, uncertainty, and anxiety, especially when the environment seems cold, clinical, or detached from the warm, supportive care we desire for those closest […]

Supporting Families Through Crisis

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Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy is gaining recognition as one of the most effective therapeutic approaches for healing trauma. At The Pursuit Counseling, we offer EMDR therapy as part of our trauma-informed care because we believe in its profound ability to help clients move through painful experiences and find lasting relief. In this […]

What is EMDR Therapy and How Can It Help?

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It’s a Saturday afternoon, and a parent and his child are working on a simple home improvement project. The task: holding a flashlight. But when the beam shifts slightly, the father’s calm demeanor quickly vanishes. He snaps, “Can’t you hold it right?” The child, wide-eyed and confused, retreats, feeling like they’ve done something wrong. What […]

Big Reactions to Small Mistakes: Parent Pass on Trauma to Kids

EMDR Therapy: Transforming Healing for “Big T” Traumas Traumatic experiences, especially those classified as “big T” traumas, can have profound and long-lasting effects on an individual’s mental and emotional health. These are typically severe and distressing events such as abuse, assault, natural disasters, or combat experiences that deeply impact a person’s sense of safety and […]

EMDR Therapy: Healing for “Big T” Traumas

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Change is an inevitable part of life. Whether it’s a new job, a major move, or an exciting opportunity on the horizon, our body’s response to change is complex, often stirring up emotions that range from excitement to anxiety. Behind the scenes, our brain’s limbic system is the engine that drives much of this emotional […]

Your Limbic System Activates When You Anticipate Change

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In today’s social media driven world, terms like “narcissism” get thrown around more frequently than ever. While self-confidence and competence are often mistaken for narcissism, it’s important to draw a clear distinction between these traits. Knowing the difference can help us better navigate our own mental health and relationships. Confidence, Competence, and Narcissism: Understanding the […]

Confidence, Competence, and Narcissism

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