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Sarah has always loved the holidays—lights, gatherings, and the excitement of her kids make it magical. But now, as a mom balancing work, kids’ activities, and holiday prep, she feels more anxiety than joy. Every year, she finds herself wondering if it’s possible to make the holidays more enjoyable and less chaotic. Navigating the holidays as a mom with ADHD certainly has challenges.

If you’re like Sarah, a busy mom with ADHD, the holidays may feel overwhelming. Balancing work, holiday events, and family traditions can make this season exhausting. The constant pressure to stay on top of everything can be especially hard for moms with ADHD. Instead of feeling behind before the season even begins, there are ways to reclaim the joy, ease the stress, and stay present for what matters.

Common ADHD Challenges During the Holidays

Moms with ADHD face unique challenges during the holidays. From tracking details to staying calm amidst the constant activity, the holiday season can lead to burnout. Some common triggers are:

• Disrupted Routines: ADHD brains often need routine, but holiday schedules throw them off entirely. The late nights and gatherings can increase stress.
• Decision Fatigue: With so many decisions to make—meals, gifts, and events—it’s easy to feel mentally exhausted and scattered.
• Sensory Overload: Bright lights, crowds, and noise can be overstimulating, leading to irritability and the need for withdrawal.

Recognizing these challenges can help you create a smoother holiday season. Here are some strategies to help ADHD moms stay calm, focused, and in control.

4 Tips to Enjoy the Holidays as an ADHD Mom

1. Choose a Few Meaningful Priorities ADHD brains tend to get creative and excited by possibilities, which can create stress if we try to do too much. Instead of attempting every tradition, choose a few activities that mean the most to you and your family. This way, you can enjoy the holidays without the burnout.Quick tip: Write down your top priorities for the season and keep them visible. This reminder can help you stay focused and say no to extra commitments.
2. Use Small Steps for Big Tasks Managing holiday chaos is easier when you break tasks into smaller steps. Instead of “buy gifts” or “decorate,” create specific actions, like “make a gift list” or “schedule a day to decorate.” Checking off smaller tasks makes the big ones feel more manageable and satisfying.Quick tip: Use a digital planner or reminders app to keep track of tasks. Setting alarms for each step can help you stay on track.
3. Set Boundaries to Prevent Overcommitment ADHD moms may want to say yes to everything during the holidays. But too many commitments can lead to stress and burnout. Set limits on holiday events and stick to a budget for gifts to keep things manageable.Quick tip: Practice saying “I’d love to, but I can’t make it work this year.” Having a go-to response makes it easier to stick to your boundaries.
4. Make Time for Self-Care, Even If It’s Just 10 Minutes Taking care of yourself is key to managing ADHD symptoms. Short breaks throughout the day can help you recharge, whether it’s a cup of tea, deep breathing, or a quiet moment to reset. Self-care can give you the energy to enjoy the holidays.Quick tip: Schedule one or two self-care activities each week during the holidays, like a solo walk or a hot bath. Small breaks help you stay calm and avoid feeling overwhelmed.

Making the Holidays Meaningful for You and Your Family

Being an ADHD mom during the holidays is a balancing act, but it’s possible to enjoy the season without getting overwhelmed. Give yourself grace, keep things simple, and focus on moments that bring true joy.

Remember, perfection isn’t the goal. The best memories often come from little moments of connection, not from doing everything. By honoring your needs as an ADHD mom, you can create a holiday season that feels manageable and joyful.

Happy holidays from all of us at The Pursuit Counseling! Whether you’re keeping things low-key or decking the halls, may the season bring peace and happiness to you and your family.

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