Uncharted Territory

Retirement is often seen as a well-earned reward—a time to relax, enjoy life, and reconnect with loved ones. But for many couples, the transition from a structured work life to spending nearly every hour together can be unexpectedly challenging. One couple I worked with recently put it perfectly when one spouse quipped, “I vowed to […]

Dinner is on the table, but no one is making eye contact. One parent is answering emails, the other is scrolling through social media. The kids? One is glued to a tablet, the other is watching YouTube on a phone. It’s not that they don’t love each other. It’s not that they don’t want to […]

You keep ending up in the same toxic relationship situation, with the same type of person, over and over. It’s not bad luck—it’s a pattern. Let’s break the cycle. If you’re divorced and find yourself repeatedly caught in unhealthy relationship dynamics, you’re not alone. Many people unconsciously fall into the same toxic relationship patterns, shaped […]

You know that feeling when you’re staring at a half-full Target cart, sipping your third iced coffee of the day, and wondering, What’s next for me? Maybe the kids are growing up, your routine feels too predictable, or there’s just this whisper in the back of your mind saying, There has to be more. But every time you think about […]

How Porn Rewires the Brain and Undermines Relationships Many adults expect to be building relationships, dating, and forming meaningful connections. But for some, there’s a growing sense of disinterest in real-world intimacy, an emotional numbness, or even an outright struggle to engage in relationships at all. A common factor? Porn. The Hidden Shift: From Connection […]

Life is filled with relationships that shape and transform us, yet not all of these relationships last forever. Whether through loss, changes in seasons, or intentional boundaries, endings often carry grief that requires resolution. The “empty chair” technique, a cornerstone of Gestalt therapy, offers a path toward closure—helping us process emotions, gain insights, and ultimately […]

For pilots, focus and precision are non-negotiable. The ability to anticipate challenges, make split-second decisions, and stay mission-focused is what makes aviation professionals some of the most skilled individuals in the world. But this intense focus on performance and outcomes can sometimes come at a cost—disconnection. Disconnection isn’t just about relationships; it’s also about losing […]

Money isn’t just about numbers—it’s about security, self-worth, and identity . Ever feel guilty after splurging on something? Or avoid checking your bank account because you just know it’s going to stress you out? You’re not alone. Our financial habits are deeply tied to our emotions, shaped by childhood experiences, cultural influences, and even social pressures. But here’s the […]

Bringing a new baby into the world is often portrayed as a joyful experience, but for many new mothers, it can also bring unexpected emotional struggles. Postpartum depression (PPD) is a serious mental health condition that affects approximately 1 in 7 mothers, making it one of the most common complications of childbirth. Unlike the “baby […]

One of the most powerful reminders from nature is that growth isn’t constant. Winter plays a vital role in nature’s cycle—it’s a season of dormancy, rest, and preparation for renewal. Trees shed their leaves, animals hibernate, and the soil regenerates under layers of frost. This season of stillness is not wasted; it is necessary. Without […]

Depression is a common mental health condition that affects millions of people worldwide, yet it does not look the same for everyone. While both men and women can struggle with depression, the way they experience and express it can be very different. Understanding these differences can help individuals and their loved ones recognize the signs […]

Anxiety can be a normal part of teenage life, but when it starts to affect daily activities, relationships, or school performance, it may be a sign that a student needs extra support. Many high school students experience anxiety due to academic pressure, social challenges, or uncertainty about the future. While some teens openly express their […]

Rest is not always easy for me. Resting while I’m sick is even harder, ironically. My mindset when I’m resting is that I’m getting further and further behind instead of seeing it as an intentional way I’m taking care of myself. I also feel like I’m missing out and not able to do the things that […]

When pilots face unexpected challenges in the air, they rely on a structured response: Aviate, Navigate, Communicate—in that order. This method ensures they maintain control of the aircraft, determine their course, and then communicate their needs effectively. What if we applied this same principle to relationships, especially in times of conflict? This was exactly what […]

There’s something about putting one foot in front of the other, mile after mile, that opens my mind to new ideas. Running is a great way for me to process my thoughts, but it’s also one of my favorite ways to learn. As an auditory learner, Audible has become my best running partner, feeding me […]

Let’s be honest, life can be a lot. Maybe you’re navigating a big transition, processing old wounds, or just trying to keep your head above water while running a business and leading a team. You know you don’t have to do it alone, but where do you even start? Meet Julia, one of the therapists […]

Money is more than just numbers in a bank account—it carries deep psychological meaning, shaping our beliefs, behaviors, and relationships. In marriage, financial dynamics can either be a source of strength or a major stressor, depending on how couples communicate, manage expectations, and align their financial values. Understanding the psychology of money can help couples […]

The transition from childhood to adolescence is a pivotal time for both teens and their parents. As children grow, the parent-child relationship shifts from instruction to influence, and ideally, to an advisory role in adulthood. This evolution can be challenging, especially when parents and teens struggle to find a balance between freedom, responsibility, and safety. […]

Let’s talk about something that might not get enough attention but can make a huge difference in your life: pets. You might already know that pets are great companions, they bring joy, comfort, and a sense of connection. But did you know that having a pet can actually play a big role in improving your […]

Dear New Mama, Welcome to the most incredible, challenging, and rewarding journey of your life. It’s okay to feel uncertain, overwhelmed, and even scared. You are not alone. Every mother starts as a beginner, and with time, patience, and support, you will grow into the amazing parent your child needs. Here are some guiding principles […]