Am I the Problem in My Relationship?

If you’ve found yourself Googling things like: “Why do I feel crazy in my relationship?” “Why am I always apologizing?” “Am I the toxic one?” “How do I stop making my partner upset?” …you’re not alone. In fact, these are among the most common questions people ask when they’re living inside a relationship that feels…

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Why Does My Partner Switch From Loving to Hating Me?

Have you ever sat alone after yet another argument—your heart racing, your mind replaying every word—whispering to yourself, “What just happened?” Or have you found yourself anxiously scanning your partner’s tone, their mood, their body language, trying to predict which version of them is about to walk into the room? Many people in emotionally unstable…

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Learning to Say No to Good Things During the Holiday Season

As we move through the heart of the holiday season, our days often become crowded quickly. Work deadlines pile up. Family calendars fill. Personal and professional goals are rushing toward year-end. Invitations seem endless—office parties, friend gatherings, social clubs, neighborhood events. Most of these are good things. Meaningful things. And yet, this is exactly why…

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Loneliness at Work and in Relationships

Loneliness is one of the most common themes I’m seeing right now — not just in therapy sessions, but in coaching conversations with high-performing professionals, couples, and leaders. And it isn’t always the dramatic, painful kind of loneliness we imagine. More often, it’s subtle. It sounds like: “I’m surrounded by people, but I don’t feel…

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How to Stay Married

Marriage isn’t something you “complete” — it’s something you continually practice. Even the strongest couples face seasons of miscommunication, stress, or emotional distance. But long-lasting marriages aren’t built on luck; they’re built on intentional habits that strengthen connection day after day. If you’ve ever wondered what truly keeps couples together in a world full of…

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When High Performance Isn’t Enough: Why Many Executives Seek Therapy

People often assume that when someone is successful on paper—growing a business, leading a team, managing a demanding career—they must feel equally steady on the inside. But many of the executives and entrepreneurs I sit with each week describe something different: high responsibility, constant pressure, and a sense of being “always on,” even when they’re…

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